ROMCOMS RUINED ME!!!

I know the title is a little weird but rom-coms had wrecked my life. ROMCOMS are not real though. But I wish it were real. I cannot resist watching it. Oh god have you ever felt butterflies🦋 in your stomach while watching some romantic movie. I don’t want that damn butterflies. It’s not like I want a similar story in my life. Ok, lemme be a little candid! YES I do want the same story in my life. I know it’s not happening. Not in this life. CAN’T HAPPEN!!

But whenever I see a movie I start visualizing things. It happens to me every time. I m an overthinker, not a normal overthinker a superlative overthinker. I put myself in that scenario. The whole night I end up imagining things and wake up with a blushing smile. Though I’m not gonna lie I enjoy imagining things. Being a hopeless romantic, this only gets my hopes up for a man with gorgeous blue eyes, a chiseled body, and a personality that isn’t superficial and so self-absorbed. That’s not even possible.

Nobody is that perfect. I’ll leave those kinds of relationships to the movies. It’s pretty easy to recognize that the behavior we often see from men in the movies is so not the behavior we see from them in real life. Where are these men? These stories are so fictitious.

My expectations are not obviously about men. But also about the lifestyle, friends, family, clothes, food, travel…umm everything. The movies have even prom night for teenagers. I’ve never been into nightclubs. I’ve never been into theme parties too and also Halloween parties. Seriously Don’t be shocked. I want to feel it all. Not gonna die without experiencing it!

What happens exactly in a typical movie. There is an unpopular/shy girl and a handsome popular guy. They don’t like each other at first. But become friends, started liking each other. What happens at the Climax, due to untoward incidence let’s say a girl regrets liking that man. But the man somehow manages to convince the girl that they love each other. In the end, there is a happy ending. BLAH!! The most typical storyline of every damn movie. Is this even real Or I m the supporting character of someone’s life. I hate being a supporting character. I want to write my own story.

Yes, here I m being hypocritical. On one side I m saying that I hate rom coms one side I m saying that I also love watching it. That’s what the problem is. I also want to watch all romcoms. I want to watch it without intensifying my expectations. While watching any series/movie My friends often said to me they relate to the story. But it never happened to me. I can’t relate to anything. I accepted that every story is a fairy tale to me.

WANT TO WATCH WITHOUT HAVING OR INCREASING ANY EXPECTATIONS.

Ps: leaving the blog here I’ve to watch She’s all that( Rom-com )🙈